Stay or Move on?

You can't have it both ways. As much as you'd like to keep things the way they are, they rarely do. Sooner or later you'll have to choose. Don't let fate decide that for you. There's nothing worse than a lost opportunity.

So make the move. Say what needs to be said. And let her make the choice as well. It's better for you to lose him or her now after making the choice than to wake up one day and find out that they're gone. You'll just hate yourself. Trust me on this.

If you're damned if you do and you're damned if you don't, you might as well take the consequences by doing the action. At least then, both of you will know that they were worth the risk of breaking your heart.